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| 9-24-2006 Green Grass Want to get to the end of your life and have no regrets? First of all we have to find out what causes regrets. The old saying, the grass is always greener on the other side, is just not true, although it always appears that way. When you get over the fence you realize it was just a mirage. Children are a classic example: They wish they were 18 years old only to realize that making adult decisions brings adult consequences. As adults we long for our youth, oh how great it would be sometimes to only have to worry about school and all the other easy things. I now tell our youth don’t wish your life away; yet we as adults do the same thing. We go from wishing to waiting. We are always waiting on something that will make our life better. Somehow instead of being content with what we have or where we are at, we think that things would better if only; If only I had a better job – then my family could be happy. I could have a better house, a better vehicle, better clothes, a better computer, I could travel the world, take extravagant vacations, have a housekeeper, etc. etc. etc. Our whole life is passing by while we are in that constant state of pursuit for happiness. In this state of mind happiness is just right over there. Want no regrets? Quit waiting on people, places and things to make you happy. Happiness has not and never will come from the things of this world, they are fleeting. Instead, focus on the Lord and what you can do for others; be content with what you have and take an inventory of the things God has already given you. If He has given you children, spend time with them, show them you love them. If it is a husband or wife, treasure the vows and commitment you made to each other and to God, don’t even think someone else could make you happier – it is not about you. If it is that old beat up truck or car, go outside and clean it up; be proud you don’t have to walk. Make your dwelling a place of peace and comfort. Take a walk around the outside and tell the Lord thank you, and then let the devil know he is not playing in your yard anymore. Take what you have and say “Thank you, Lord”. Remember, for every thing that you may want a bigger, better version of – there is always a smaller, poorer version. There is no such thing as the best of the best; there is only the matter of opinion. When your time on earth is through, let there be no regrets on how you spent it. Spend time nurturingthe grass you already have, not only will it be healthier, it will be greener! (Day 321 of The Watch) C. Young Chris@mbcar.org |
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